There have been multiple people since I began writing my blog, that have come up to me and asked me for advice. They find it hard to find a relationship that will drive them to be happy. Everyone wants a boyfriend it seems like. Both women and men that are single want that satisfaction and sensation of being in love. So how do you find it? How do you go about getting that perfect spouse? Look at anyone who has been in a relationship for a very long time. specifically look at those that are very happy, maybe they are planning on getting married, maybe they already are. Now if you immediately thought of that person who “has it all” then you might be on to something. Those people did not just stumble into being happy and perfect all by accident. They first fixed themselves. They worked hard to make themselves happy. So the true question I would like to ask you is will love really make you happy?