Porno Pleasure

Doing the "dirty"The Devil’s magazine, the dirty dirty, “dad’s news”, the big kid videos…yes that’s right I’m speaking about porn.  Today almost 30% of all online traffic is to adult websites.  There are billions of people online every day…and a third of all the websites that people are visiting include people getting pounded…in some sence of the word.  And lets not even think about those that have the privilege to become addicted to it.  Yes my friends, if I was going to have an addiction…it would be to porn.  So with all this dirty viewing taking place, this can not possibly be good for your relationship right?  The last thing someone wants to do is think that while they are in bed with someone else, they aren’t the only naked body on their partner’s mind.  So I guess the question is…how bad is porn to someone’s relationship?

There was a study done in England regarding the effects of porn on a relationships.  The results were rather interesting.  Those that let their partners watch porn freely, were less likely to have a partner be tempted to cheat.  So with this, is porn a different way of cheating?  Lets break it down to some positives and negatives…

Porno Positives:

  • Able to spend time the person of your dreams
  • Won’t ever leave the chance for them to take a number
  • Never lose money on a date
  • Always a one night stand (unless you follow the star)

Porno Negatives:

  • You may not be what he looks for in a person physically
  • They may think of someone else while in bed
  • Sex drive may lessen from repeated pleasuring
  • It can turn into an addiction

vacuumSo does porn really help or hurt your relationship?  One hand you have someone who could be thinking about that dream boy all the time, while on the other hand watching that chick might actually prevent him from picking up a new girl.  And, unless your mother walks in on you using the vacuum cleaner hose, porn actually helps elevate stress and pent-up adrenalin.  The results of a good O will actually make you happier and more positive in your everyday life.  It’s even been shown children in the womb playing with themselves.  So does porn help…yes it does.  It will not only increase you moods, but relieve stress, and alow you to focus better.  It helps not only your personal life, but your professional life as well.

So turn off your adult filters, unblock those raunchy sites you wouldn’t want your mother to see, and pleasure away my friends!

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7 responses to “Porno Pleasure

  1. Rebecca Stibrany

    You can masturbate without porn and still enjoy the benefits of the hormonal release.
    Anecdotal evidence, but I’ve only ever seen porn get in the way of a healthy relationship. I wouldn’t date a guy who watches it, because I know exactly what it’s doing to his brain.
    You can read a simplified version of the chemical processes here http://yourbrainonporn.com/

    • Thats an awesome site thanks for sharing it with us…I can see your point but does that also mean that he shouldn’t do drugs or drink alch as they alter the brain as well?

      It’s a very good point that you’ve brought up.

      • Rebecca Stibrany

        Well, prescription drugs are fine. The ones that alter the brains chemistry are doing so to fix an existing problem diagnosed by a clinician.
        Non prescription recreational drugs? No, he shouldn’t be doing those for reasons including but not limited to, he doesn’t know what is actually in them and he won’t have a clue exactly how they’re affecting his body.
        Alcohol in moderation is fine. Yes, it affects the brain, but the effects are temporary and the body is well equipped to deal with it. The body even produces a small amount of alcohol naturally.
        At the end of the day, the negatives of porn far outweigh the positives, even if you are watching in moderation.
        Say you drink a little, you’re not going to hide your six pack, if you drink a lot you’d start hiding your booze.
        If you only have a little porn do you leave it out in the open? Hell no. You create a virtual desktop or a hidden folder, even if you just have one video. If you only watched one video, you’d still be scrambling to erase your history if there was a chance someone would find it.
        Because deep down you know it’s sleazy. You might feel good when you’re beating it, but as soon as you’re done you feel guilty. That’s the nature of pornography, you’re no longer interested when you’re not aroused.
        It’s pretty complex, there are so many factors both physiological and psychological, long term and short term, but the majority of them tend toward the negative.

  2. ^^ I like what Rebecca has to say. It has always destroyed any relationship I’ve know of that involved one or the other watching porn.. Honestly I consider it emotional cheating and won’t tolerate it in my own relationship.

  3. I’d have to say that this blog is a catch22. On one hand it’s healthy to masturbate on a regular basis. But on the other hand is it really healthy to watch porn on a daily basis? I’m sure their are many numerous studies done to determine this. Personally I don’t care if the guy I’m interested in watches porn on a regular basis. When it come to porn for me I prefer porn that tells a story anyway. And besides just seeing a picture of a topless guy is almost soft-core porn to me. LOL

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